I read in passing that the most difficult non-paying job in the world is being a mother. I’m not a mother yet, but I’ve felt and witnessed the strength and impact of a mother’s love, courage, and wisdom.
My mother and I do not have the perfect mother-daughter relationship. Our personalities are strikingly similar, making us butt heads often, but it’s clear in my heart the abundant love that she has for me.
And there is no doubt in this world that I would do anything to provide for and protect my mother and show the love and appreciation I have for her forever and ever.
It took me being away from my mom to realize all of this. And although we still argue from time to time, I want to spend the rest of her life creating the best memories. I want her heart to be full of laughter, peace, and joy.
On Mother’s Day, May 8, and many days throughout each year, let’s cherish our time with our moms and/or mother figures.
And we should do our best to have many moments with them.
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Memorable Activities to Do With/For Our Moms
- Help around the house
- Explore the city and discover hidden gems
- Treat them to a hair salon
- Let them sleep in
- Give them hugs
- Help them out in the garden
- Assist them with their tasks
- Solve some puzzles together
- Have a movie marathon
- Treat them to a mani-pedi
- Cook or bake something together
- Treat them to a restaurant with dishes they'll enjoy
- Have a picnic at the park
- Take a mini vacation to their hometown
- Orchestrate a photoshoot with them as the subject
- Volunteer together
- Sing or orchestrate an entire mother's day performance/show
- Cook their favorite dish(es)
- Take them shopping
- Video chat with long distance family members
- Fill up camera roll with random, silly selfies together
- Have a family photoshoot
- Make a memory book
- Take a stroll through a park or botanical garden
- Write them a heartfelt letter or poem
- Enjoy an at-home spa day
- Put together a flower bouquet
- Book a massage session
- Go for a walk around the neighborhood
- Serve them breakfast in bed
- Practice self-care
- Do something they've always been wanting to do
- DIY a photo album and fill it with photos
- Sketch or paint a portrait of them
- Engage in a deep conversation
- DIY something based on their life story
- Create a Mother's Day playlist
- Reminisce through old photos and/or home videos
- Book a weekend getaway to a place they've never been to before
- Relax at the beach
A Mother's Day Itinerary
My ideal day with mom on Mother’s Day would go a little something like this:
THE WEEK (OR DAY/NIGHT) BEFORE
- Get started on cleaning up the house.
- Go ingredient shopping for meals to cook.
- Write a letter to mom.
MOTHER’S DAY
- Continue cleaning up the house, including doing the laundry.
- Have mom sleep in, and cook her breakfast.
- Bring her breakfast to bed once she wakes up.
- Take her shopping.
- Go to the mani-pedi and/or hair salon appointment.
- Enjoy late lunch at her favorite restaurant.
- Head over to the beach and catch up on life.
- While there, sketch a portrait of her or take some photos/selfies.
- Go back home and help out with her garden.
- Let her refresh and relax some more while dinner is being prepared.
- Surprise her with a dinner menu of her favorite dishes.
- Give her the written letter after dinner.
- Enjoy the rest of the evening solving puzzles and/or watching movies.
A Long-Distance Mother's Day Itinerary
- Order a bouquet of flowers and have them delivered in the morning.
- Video chat with her.
- Plan any future vacations together.
- Confirm if she’s received her Mother’s Day package – includes a customized card and/or handwritten letter; at least two-three items that she’s been needing; at least one item that she’s been wanting; and some delicious treats.
- Order lunch and/or dinner takeout from her favorite restaurant.
To all the mothers in the world,
Thank you. You are loved. You are appreciated. Not only do you help create lives, but you also help change many as well.
Happy Mother’s Day
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What is/are your favorite moment(s) with your mom?
